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AIBU?

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Mum at school

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Chubby1245 · 12/11/2019 19:54

Hey just here for some advice
I was good “friends” with a mum from the school, at least I thought I was until I found out she was talking about me behind my back and also sharing my personal problems/situations behind my back.
I have since backed away from her which caused a load of drama and has ended up with me being isolated and her turning everyone against me. I have no idea what she has told the other mums but they tend to keep their distance. What bothers me the most about this is that I felt hurt and betrayed by her and when I was close to her she would say terrible things about these other mums who now think the sun shines out of her arse. AIBU to feel I want to tell everyone what she is really like and what she has said?! I feel like doing this but I do not want the aggro it will cause!! How do I handle this situation?! There’s only so much smiling and being civil I can do. It’s really starting to upset me as I’m not a nasty person.

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Hellofromtheotherside2020 · 12/11/2019 19:55

No. Hold your head high and carry on as normal. Snakes always get discovered in the end. She'll do it to someone else. Just move on and lesson learned, don't trust many people x

Jollitwiglet · 12/11/2019 19:58

As above, just ignore her and the drama. People will soon see what she is like when she starts doing the same to them

Chubby1245 · 12/11/2019 19:59

Thanks guys it’s just so hard to watch and me being made out to be the bad guy. It took me 2 years to find out what she was like... it’s going to be a long wait x

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StreetwiseHercules · 12/11/2019 20:00

Mums at the school gates just can’t seem to behave. Always jostling within the hierarchy.

I am very wary of them.

OneDay10 · 12/11/2019 20:06

Just leave her to it. Remember if she did it to you, its only a matter of time that she will do it to someone else. And if others are keeping their distance based on gossip then you dont want much to do with them as well.
Take a step back and keep in mind that the only thing you have in common with these people are your kids attending the same school.

Chubby1245 · 12/11/2019 20:11

Yes that’s very true just feel very alone

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