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Aibu to a night out

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Ineedcoffee2345 · 10/11/2019 17:35

I'm over due with baby number 2. However I have been given my induction date for Saturday 16th Nov 😊
So every year I go out with a large group of women made up of my mum sisters MIL SILs friends etc. Its out annual Xmas day/night out.
This year it falls on 7th Dec. Starting with a late pub lunch at 3pm and continue onto the venue which is a band basically singing Xmas songs. All very festive.
My question is. Would you women judge a woman going out so soon after birth. I wil be around 3/4 weeks Post birth?
My dh is telling me I'm beinng ridiculous worrying what other people think and that if I'm fit and feeling fine then I should go Wink
I'm well aware things could change ie section needed or stitches. However my first birth was text book and hoping for the same this time.
Think I'm just wanting some reassurance that it's OK and I'm not being a terrible mother leaving my newborn with her daddy for a night.
Ps I'm not a heavy drinker and won't be breastfeeding

OP posts:
ILoveAnAgathaChristieMurder · 10/11/2019 18:12

2 weeks after I gave birth to my 2nd I went to a wedding and although tired I danced and had fun. Don't worry about others

User3421090989098 · 10/11/2019 18:35

Go and have fun! Who cares what other people may or may not think! Your DP is a parent too and he sounds more than capable and supportive!

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