OK, so apologies in advance that this is one of 'those' topics, so please be careful about what you share, and I'll be similarly vague for obvious reasons.
DD is 11, in Y6 at school and NT. Very bright, fiercely independent and we usually have an excellent, very open relationship even when it comes to talking about things that may be embarrassing etc.
She makes her own way home from school, and changes out of her uniform when she gets in. Earlier in the school year I found her clothes in the basket were wet, and asked her about it, but she clammed up and wouldn't say anything. I figured she'd just had an accident and was embarrassed, understandable. But we all get caught short, so I said nothing more.
The same happened on Friday, and again she denied it. This is what has been playing on my mind, because as I said we are usually so open, so now I'm worried about whats the matter and why she won't talk to me so that I can help.
It's so totally out of character, both the accidents - she's not had one to my knowledge since she was maybe 7 at most - and also being so shy and coy about it. I don't want to hound her about something that must be embarrassing, but at the same time I can't help if something is wrong unless I know. :(