‘DP’ taking the actual piss

[Larapops]

I’m feeling really annoyed. We haven’t been getting on well recently but tonight is just a new level of disrespect. I came in today and he’d gone out, not mentioned where he was going, and he’s not been back since. I text him at midnight and said are you planning I’m coming back tonight/where are you, he said ‘I’ll get a taxi soon’ still not saying where he is. Two hours have gone by and nothing. I don’t want to text again, want to go to sleep but am really angry he’s not said ‘I’m at such and such and I’ll be back at this time’ - am I being controlling or would this actually piss others off?

I’d be bloody fuming! He’s being an arse!

What is the back story OP?

He is taking the piss. He should have messaged you to let you know that he was going out and he won't be back until late and not to wait up for him. I certainly don't mind if my husband goes out, but to me it is just common courtesy to let your partner know that you're going out and will be late home. Saves you from worrying for starters

There isn’t a backstory, there’s been no big row - just been in a mood with each other but on speaking terms. I’m literally fucked off big time.

He doesn't care about you.

That's all you need to know.

I can guess he’s at a friends house and likely that there’s girls there. I can’t sleep because I actually feel so angry about it, feel like messaging him to tell him to seriously fuck himself but I’ll resist

Agree with @Dita73 he's being an arse! Try and get some sleep.

Do you have kids? It would piss me off if I was left home holding the baby, but if not I don’t think I would really be bothered. Hard to say though because my DH would let me know, and I wouldn’t text to ask when he was coming home.

Is there somewhere you could go for the rest of the night? If it was me I'd leave the house, go to a family members or something for the rest of the night and then go do something for the day and then stroll in randomly when you know he's home and just act oblivious to him being out all night and just be like ah sorry Ive not been home and didn't contact you I've been busy.. and just be proper casual about it he'd feel a right knob that he's been out all night thinking you're at home worrying when really you'd been out too!

Why are you resisting sending that text? Seems like splitting up would be the smart thing to do.

Lime red is right, he doesn’t care about you.

Do you want to stay with him ?