My husband works away and when he comes back at the weekend, I was hoping to spend some quality time together but instead he started drinking with his friend and then he went out to town after and he never comes back til the next day as he stays at his friends house. The next day is when he has to leave again first thing to go work the next morning which leaves no quality time at all together. I've expressed this to him very strongly and said I've had enough of it and that I really miss him and was hoping we'd just cuddle up in bed together and keep each other company but turns out he prefers to just go and see his friend instead of his own family. He then threw a hissy fit and started saying I am controlling and that he has been busy all week and everything he does is always for the family! Whereas I am the one who has been working, keeping the house tidy, shopping, looking after the kids, absolutely everything, I get no time for myself at all and still he cannot even stay with me for one evening. I am really fucking annoyed and feeling emotional 