I am not perfect but I consider myself a nice person, often too kind and let others walk all over me and I cannot stick up for myself. There’s people I don’t like but I’m not horrible to them. I iust keep away. I tend to keep myself to myself. I know a lot of people to chat to but never formed any close friendships.
Live in a small village. It’s obvious it’s a bit cliquey and bitchy but never had an issue with anyone hence the keeping myself to myself.
So there’s a mum of a little boy in DD’s class. I don’t know her well but would also say hello how are you? How’s the children type of thing. We became friends on Facebook and occasionally spoke on there, very occasionally. She lives down the street but not overly close. Don’t see her apart from the school run.
So this woman has deleted me and a friend, I noticed a week or two ago. Didn’t think much of mainly because I didn’t know her that well anyway and maybe she’s just wanted to be friends with those she’s close with. Fine.
So took DD to a party today and said woman was there. I said hello. She just point blank ignored me and glared at me so I went to sit down. A bit awkward as we were the only guests there at this time. I was fractionally early. So more guests started turning up, more parents I know, general chit chat with them. All good.
But I could just sense said woman keep looking over my way (other side of room) and whispering to another mum (who also seems pretty bitchy). It’s like kids in a playground seriously. I’m the type of person that would smile back at them just to remain calm and not make the situation worse. I don’t like falling out with anyone. I haven’t fallen out with many people in my 28 years on this planet.
So I don’t know that the hell this woman has a problem with. I could not name one thing I’ve done wrong myself. I keep wondering if my children have done something to upset her or her little ones. Mine have additional needs and by no means perfectly behaved but we generally have no problems with their behaviour with other children. . I’ve also figured that her husband knows my sil. Could it be something sil has done to Annoy her? I actually have no idea.
I know this is a bit long. I just went to vent somewhere anonymously.
Aibu to ask what her problem is? This is not something I’ve ever done with anyone before! I’ve never had to. I’m just hurt people can make you feel so low quite clearly bitching and glaring at someone at a birthday party.
I have anxiety and It just makes me feel so low that ladies that are clearly older than me as well would make someone feel so crap for no obvious reason
I mean if there’s a problem. Why not approach me? If I’ve upset someone I’d like to know and put it right.