So as not to drop feed we have three children and not long ago moved house and I struggle with anxiety where money is concerned. I work full time in a caring role and hubby works in hospitality. Problem is he is only working on average 5 hours a day because he has done what he needs to do in that time and has nothing else he can be doing which in turn is causing a sizeable deficit in finances and we are struggling. Now, his role is to be fair based on tourism and it is a quiet time of year but the other staff he works with stay later and find things to do to make money where hubby just doesn't want to do this. In turn I am doing in excess of 48 hours a week to make ends meet and losing quite a lot in tax and other stoppages so really I am doing more but not making a lot more. I feel resentful that i am working every hour God sends and fear that if I get sick we can't manage on one salary. Aibu?