I've been back with the father of my child for around two-three weeks after a month apart. His mum is pretty overbearing and doesn't particularly like me - when my boyfriend broke up with me he had told her lots of negative things about me. However, since announcing my pregnancy, she has been overly nice to me, offering to buy me things, asking how I am, being SO thankful for any photos etc, just too nice.
But I know she would be furious if she found out we were back together.
My parents are aware (we're 24 and 27) but he just won't tell his mum. He lies about where he's going, if he barely stays over because he doesn't want her to ask questions, and when he did once say he was coming to see me, she got a bit angry and asked whether we were getting back together, to which he said no.
It's getting awkward for me because his mum keeps asking me to meet up with her for coffee to chat about how she and her family can help me with the baby, and saying things like how my son is going to have two families who love him, and all this stuff acting as if we're seperated.
I can't carry on these conversations or meet up with her and it's making me feel so uncomfortable that she's talking to me as if me and the baby's dad are still seperated.
I know, it sounds like an episode of Eastenders and I really wish it didn't. I'm a very straight up honest person and luckily have very supportive parents, and I just hate all this running around like teenagers and lying when I am four months pregnant and wanting to focus on settling down with my family.
Would it be unreasonable to just tell her myself so that we can all get on with our lives? Or shall I keep waiting for him to eventually do it? I don't want to break any trust.