I ask as although this is a small thing, I feel it could spiral.
Little girl has been asked to a bday party at the weekend, 6th party since September and first one that has occurred when she is with Dad.
Who buys present and card?
Background, he earns good money, has 3 children, mine is the 3rd. So I get 1/3 of csa for 3 children, (4.5% of gross pay) lives with new partner who also has child (meant csa went down but is another conversation)
I also earn reasonable money and don’t ask for Dad to contribute any more than the csa. I provide all clothes etc for when she is at his (and do all washing)