And am I sticking my nose in?

[sadaboutlife]

My cousin is 45 and never married.
He lived with his mam,dad and brother who was 35.
They were close.
3 years this Boxing Day my cousin 35 died tragically at home.
7 months later his mum died and a week ago his dad died.
After his brother died he turned to alcohol.
Now he is a alcoholic.
My uncle looked after him and made sure he was eating.
My uncle also died suddenly.
My cousin is drinking and drinking daily now.he won't be eating.
We aren't close but I want to help him.
What can I do ?
My dad has told me to keep my nose out.

I think you are duty bound to try and help. It sounds like a terrifically tragic situation.

I think it's good to open lines of communication. Beware of managing his life however. There's quite a few threads of here re families of alcoholics, lots of talk about how they need to want to change.
Grief counselling might be a start?

That is a desperately sad situation. Yes, I think you should help if you can. Your poor cousin :(

My younger cousin died from liver disease due to alcohol.
A blood vessel burst due to the liver and he bled to death.
My aunty died of a heart attack and now my uncle a perforated ulcer.
My cousin is totally lost.
I don't know how he will cope

Whilst I think you should be try and be there for him as a person, he is in a situation no one would want to be in. If it was me in his situation, I wouldn't want anyone interfering and I would want to make my own choice about going or not going forward.

I do not believe that live is worth living at all costs and he should be allowed to make his own choice.

I'm trying to keep out of it but it's just hard because I don't want him to drink himself to death.
They were all such a close family and I don't know how he will ever be ok tbh