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To ask about buying a house on one salary?

45 replies

treehousepictures · 06/11/2019 12:48

Looking around here most are £200,000 + so not affordable.

How do people manage?

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bridgetreilly · 06/11/2019 13:44

But there aren’t any cheaper! I’m looking at studio flats here

Then you need to look elsewhere. There are three main factors: size of property, location of property, price of property. You're already looking at the smallest properties and they are outside of your price range, so you need to change the other factor: location.

treehousepictures · 06/11/2019 13:55

But then if I change the location I wouldn’t have a job. Not trying to be awkward but there doesn’t seem a way around it.

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Daisy7654 · 06/11/2019 14:01

Can't you commute to work?

treehousepictures · 06/11/2019 14:02

Well not from so far!

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Bluntness100 · 06/11/2019 14:02

45k as th single income for two people is by no means a huge salary. Confused

Bluntness100 · 06/11/2019 14:04

Op, how much is the salary?

ScreamedAtTheMichelangelo · 06/11/2019 14:06

For two people, no, £45k isn't huge. For one person, though? I'd define it as huge.

loobyloo1234 · 06/11/2019 14:07

My first property was a flat - 2 bedroom. I wanted a house. Couldn't afford it. Got on the property ladder with a 10% deposit (saved myself, no help)

Then sold that and moved 3 years later into a house. Had made enough on the flat to put down around 25% deposit.

I was on £26k when I bought the flat - if relevant. And it was a huge struggle - but worth it now I have my house

HeyMissyYouSoFine · 06/11/2019 14:07

If you are in SE might well mean job hunting and moving to another part of UK.

We've had to move around UK for work anyway - just as well as there is no way I could have bought anywhere near where I grew up - my siblings who remained there are all still renting.

TimeForAChristmasUsername · 06/11/2019 14:09

You can't then. We were able to buy because our house had features that most people find extremely off putting, also it is at least 40 minutes commute from any city type jobs (not "the" City, but you know what I mean)

We had to consciously decide what to sacrifice, and for us, we wanted to own our own home and have plenty of time together as a family - that means fairly basic jobs in a fairly basic part of the UK. We deliberately chose a house cheaper than we could afford as I am self employed, and a one income mortgage is our safety net.

It isn't a choice that would suit everyone, I absolutely get that, but, like you, we were in a position where it was lifestyle change or no house, ever

SnuggyBuggy · 06/11/2019 14:10

Big deposit was how we did it.

In the long term could you consider looking for another job and relocating. It's shit, I once worked at a hospital that was struggling to get nurses because it was a high cost location and they were all doing that.

Aposterhasnoname · 06/11/2019 14:11

They buy in cheaper areas. Round here you Can get a small terrace for £60,000, I’ve just been on right move and there’s a one bedroom apartment for £28,000. I get that where you live it’s dearer, but the question wasn’t how do they afford To buy where you live.

VivaDixie · 06/11/2019 14:16

OP i once commuted by car from Manchester to Liverpool daily, if i didn't i wouldn't have had a job!

People also commute from Birmingham to London, what i am saying is that if you really want to buy then you will make sacrifices.

ruralcat · 06/11/2019 14:17

Big deposit and a house that required some renovation and previous owner wanted a quick sale

Househunt1 · 06/11/2019 14:32

I wish 45k was mine and my husbands combined salary! That is huge to some people.

treehousepictures · 06/11/2019 14:43

But viva, that must have cost you hundreds in petrol.

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Scarlett555 · 06/11/2019 14:49

You can borrow £200k with a £45k salary so you need to work towards getting a job which pays that salary.

Shouldn't be too hard if you're down South. What field do you work in?

BarbaraofSeville · 06/11/2019 14:53

Manchester to Liverpool is about 30 miles, hardly an epic trek.

If you have to travel at rush hour the traffic will drive you insane, but petrol won't be that bad for anyone on a half decent salary.

CAG12 · 06/11/2019 15:18

Depends what your wage is surely?!

treehousepictures · 06/11/2019 15:21

Birmingham to London is not 30 miles though!

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