@Babyroobs thank you again for your time. I really appreciate it!
I can't help but say again that I think it's quite a lot. I know previous posters have said UC works better for those in work but I honestly can't get my head around it!
My sister is paid the same as I expect to be. She has a DS4 and DC2 on the way. Her rent is only £350pm in a lovely council flat. Yet when her earnings go up due to an extra 10 hours or so, she receives no UC?
Her partner (of 6 years) lives with her and works full time (for minimum wage in a very physical job) but is not registered at her address.
It's only now that I can understand why they've chosen this arrangement.
I think on the whole, UC works well for people with something in the bank to fall back on.
I always assumed UC receivers didn't like it because of the one off payment and budgeting issues.
I can't imagine for the life of me what position we'd be in if we only had the state to rely on.
My apologies, I'm rambling.
Anyway, me and DP are going to have a good long sit down and take this as an opportunity to sort out our spending habits. We've already started shopping at Aldi...why did nobody tell me about this supermarket Narnia!?
This is definitely a good time for us to revise our incomes and spend accordingly. Until a couple of months ago we'd spend without concern. Not dramatically, but when our boys needed warmer coats it never occurred to us to look at what was in the bank. The money was always there.
For everybody that who has replied to my OP, thank you, your knowledge is now mine.
When DP is back in work, we'll definitely be helping our local foodbank. There's only so much I can do before Christmas but I'll do my best.
Thank you, Honestly x