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If it were you what would you think??

16 replies

Penny12355 · 02/11/2019 11:44

Now just want to say this is in no way my scenario but I got thinking reading another thread.. if you were broke up with your partner and you hear that him and a girl were dating for a few weeks but then he ended things with her and she was angry so she messaged you saying they kissed right before you and your partner broke up but she never said anything before because it was one silly kiss would you believe her?? Or would you accuse your ex partner that more happened etc Sex. (Again not my scenario) ladies??

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trevthecat · 02/11/2019 11:46

I wouldn't so anything, we not together anymore

Inebriati · 02/11/2019 11:47

I would do neither. I can't be arsed with the drama, its like being a 14 year old back at school again.

BrassTactical · 02/11/2019 11:48

I’d think it didn’t matter either way. She might be stirring she might not but the relationship is over so whatever.

RolytheRhino · 02/11/2019 11:48

Wouldn't matter if they are now broken up. Also if it's not about you, why do you care?

Shoxfordian · 02/11/2019 11:48

Yeah I was going to say I wouldn't be worried about something that must have happened at school

Jollitwiglet · 02/11/2019 11:48

I would just laugh and forget about it and not get involved in playground silliness

SunshineAngel · 02/11/2019 11:48

If I was no longer with the guy, I would ignore the girl's message - block her so she couldn't send more - and move on with my life.

PicsInRed · 02/11/2019 11:51

I would assume they had an emotional affair, both were ridiculous twats, and would block her without responding ... before thanking my lucky stars I'd had such a lucky escape.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 02/11/2019 11:51

Eh?

OopsISnappedAndFarted · 02/11/2019 11:52

I’d tell them to grow up

IWorkAtTheCheescakeFactory · 02/11/2019 12:01

I wouldn’t even care!

MitziK · 02/11/2019 12:29

I'd assume that she thinks he's going straight back to try and convince you to take him back and

a) Ignore her. Who cares?

b) Tell him to fuck off if he does crawl back claiming it's all a big mistake.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 02/11/2019 12:32

I wouldn't do either. I'd just be glad I had a lucky escape, block them both and get on with my life.

IWillJustKeepQuietThen · 02/11/2019 12:33

Just say. Wishing you all the best in your new relationship. And then ignore.

Witchinaditch · 02/11/2019 13:08

He’s your ex so why does it matter, move on Op! You’re only hurting yourself.

jelly79 · 02/11/2019 13:57

I'd ignore her. She would be trying to cause problems for him by this! Wouldn't get dragged in to it all!

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