would going back to Uni be self-indulgent?

[OtraCosaMariposa]

In my late 40s. 25 years since I graduated. Worked full time until I had my first child 17 years ago, since then I have been working for myself. Youngest child is due to start secondary after summer.

Have been considering going back to Uni to do a Masters. It's a subject I'm really interested in, but there isn't an end goal - it wouldn't be something I was doing to try to get a better job, for example. I have the option of one year full time, two years part time. I'd have to pay fees of close to £6k. We can afford this, and if I was doing part time, I could still keep up with some of my self-employed work too.

It just seems a bit self-indulgent though.

I think indulging yourself is a completely valid thing to do. Sounds brilliant. Go for it.

I should have done it but hesitated and now can’t so easily.

Seize the day.

If you can afford to why not! It’s a great thing for you to model to your children. My mum did a degree when I was a child for no reason other than enjoyment and I’m proud of her for that.

Do it!

Just make sure you choose your course/ HEI carefully. Don't be afraid to ask questions at open days, etc. Universities are equally (if not more) keen for you to study with them (esp. at postgrad taught level) as you are to go there.

You've got one life, go for it!

You're probably aware already, but you can get a postgraduate student loan up to almost 11k.

Do it. Self indulgence is eating posh chocs in a bubble bath. This is self betterment, end goal or not.

I'm 41 and have just started my third degree. No real end goal although it is a subject that fits with my other degrees so could steer me to a certain end goal that appeals I guess. I just enjoy the subject and love studying. If you can afford it and have the time to commit to studying then go for it.

What @SpanishTiles said.

You're all very kind! I struggle with spending that much money on myself without a plan for what you're going to do at the end of it.

I'm a fairly "good student" in that I find studying a pleasure, don't get in a flap about exams and have good recall. Bit concerned that I'll pitch up at 48 and be twice the age of everyone else and sit by myself in the corner for a year. But i've done the whole going to Uni and getting pissed thing as an undergrad.

I'll be starting a MA at 37. You're never too old to be in education!