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Neighbour’s ‘booby traps’ and MH

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scaredneighbour · 31/10/2019 10:22

Not an AIBU, posting here for traffic as I’ve posted briefly about it before in chat under my main name but it got no responses. I’ve never experienced anything like this and am incredibly concerned for my neighbour’s mental state and well-being. I need some advice on what to do next and who to contact. Enviromental health are already involved but I haven’t shown them the ‘booby trap’ yet.

They are an older couple who don’t work or rarely ever leave the house, roughly aged 60-70. I know that they are alcoholics from my neighbour the other side who mentioned they make their own wine and I have seen them stood out in the street with wine glasses, sat out on the front with beers etc during the day on weekdays. Their glass bin is always absolutely full to the brim of wine and beer bottles on collection day. How much they drink is none of my business but I’m just worried for them. They have been aggressive and hostile towards me on a few occasions. Banging on my door and slurring words about ridiculous complaints, e.g. asking me to move my car from outside my own house on a public road because it’s ‘obstructing their view’, about 3yo DD playing quietly in the back garden during day time etc. I’ve only smiled and said hello a few times in passing in the whole 3 years I’ve lived here so there’s nothing to incite their behaviour towards me. I try my best to avoid them as they do terrify me a bit and seem very unpredictable.

They are very paranoid and scared of something or someone. They never have any visitors (I work from home so am in most of the time) so don’t have support, even at Christmas I’ve never seen anyone come near their house. They have 3 cameras on the front of their house, 3 on the back and one pointing down the shared driveway down the back of the terrace. They have multiple security lights that could light a whole football pitch. We live in a nice quiet area and never get any trouble. Most recently though they have added as me and family can only describe as make shift booby traps. I was confused about the glass panels they’ve recently added but then I realised they’ve put them up to hide the main part of the booby trap from me and the council. They were in the front garden when EH turned up about their dog noise so they knew what was going on. They installed the glass panels the day after EH visited. I’ll let the photos explain as I really can’t! Do I contact the police or some sort of charity for older people? I’m currently 6 months pregnant and I do kind of fear for my own safety if they are so paranoid. DH mentioned that if they have all of that security and are that fixated then they could have weapons in the house, even maybe a gun. I honestly don’t know what to do! My house is rented so should I at the very least tell my landlord? The blurry pic shows the booby trap which is a block of wood extended out of the fence with nails sticking directly up outwards so if someone were to put their hand on it getting over the wall it would cut them. It’s shoddy quality as I’ve zoomed in to respect their privacy. As you can tell from the pics they’ve also put huge rocks on top of my wall for some reasonConfused

Neighbour’s ‘booby traps’ and MH
Neighbour’s ‘booby traps’ and MH
OP posts:
Dislocatedeyeballs · 02/11/2019 01:26

Don't mean to sound rude but you sound a bit deranged obsessed and have an overactive imagination. Moaning about views boundaries and bits of wood.. They are prob to keep pigeons out who cause damage and possibly cause dogs to bark why on earth are you taking pictures of everything they do. Calm down I think. Guns cos they make their own wine and drink it outside?! Inspecting their bins for alcohol... I get they are not the most pleasant and being aggressive k is unacceptable but you seem a bit obsessed and maybe need to focus on something else

Interestedwoman · 02/11/2019 01:36

I've not seen ones like those before, but they don't look like they've made them to me, they look like they were bought. Either way- stuff to stop wrong'uns climbing over or whatever is not unusual.

IDK why your husband was going on to you that they might have a gun. Not very helpful. Maybe he enjoys winding you up. :/

JollyHolly30 · 02/11/2019 01:53

Your garden is way more of an ugly mess than the few spikes on their wall. Do you actually work from home, or just spend your time staring out your window and coming to wild conclusions about your perfectly normal sounding neighbours?

Bubs101 · 02/11/2019 02:06

OP you're being paranoid, ok they're a little odd/strange and make you feel uncomfortable but they're not doing anything illegal or harming anyone. Try to stay out of their way and just get on with your life.

pilotsprincess · 02/11/2019 04:49

Stop looking at what they are doing its none of your business 🙈
Seriously if this is your biggest issue with your neighbours your doing well , mind your business. My neighbours are kookoo but I genuinely have no interest in what they are doing with their property its not my business.
Why dont u clean up the wall on your side it would be much nicer to look at 🙈

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