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Colleague’s wardrobe malfunction/unprofessional attire

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CGaus · 30/10/2019 14:39

I often work in court, where professionals are required to dress formally in suits with jackets and closed toe professional shoes (think lawyers, civil servants). Our professional code of conduct requires us to act as “model litigants” and our policy manual has some information on standards expected at court including dress.

A colleague was wearing a knee length short sleeved cotton summer dress without a jacket. She also wore sandals. We live in Australia where it’s currently mid 20s C so the summer dress wasn’t unusual, just inappropriate. She is new to the country and the role and may not be aware of appropriate attire in court.

As a side issue this dress had buttons all the way down the front, and when she stood side-on there were gaps in the dress through which her bra, underwear and skin could be seen. This is only noticeable if you happen to be standing at the angle I was. I assume she wasn’t aware of this.

Should I have said something? I didn’t get a chance to speak with her when the opportunity arose as my matter was called into court and I had to go. Now I’m wondering if I should mention it to her next time I see her?

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OhTheRoses · 31/10/2019 06:25

I had a chat with dh last night about court dress and he owns a wig or three and wears them rarely.

His view. He expects the barristers to be presentable and conservative and everyone else employed by the court to be unremarkable. In the UK things have relaxed a little and my favourite tribunal judge (I am not a lawyer but often am present for the respondent) sports purple hair and wears biker boots!

I would leave this for a manager or other court official to deal with if they see fit.

nononever · 31/10/2019 07:06

She is new to the country and the role and may not be aware of appropriate attire in court.

So no-one told her the 'rules' then? If so you are being unfair.

lazarusb · 31/10/2019 11:34

OhtheRoses Are you talking about SP? If so, I love her too - met her as a barrister for the other side in one of my cases once. She's fabulous.

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