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To persue this without knowing what I want - complaint to dept store

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AndysFavouriteToy · 25/10/2019 13:58

On Wednesday I received several emails from a large dept store chain to confirm my purchase for several hundred pounds. I panicked that it was fraud activity (the last 4 digits on the card used were the same as an old card of mine).
I called dept store and was on hold for over an hour. In my panic, during this time I contacted my dh who cancelled my bank card (joint account) and changed PayPal password.
I got through and eventually it was found that the customer had accidentally put my email address in. They are very similar.

However, surely to activate her account she should have had to receive an email and click to activate? I was very stressed (I admit possibly overreacting due to previous fraud).
Also through the emails I now have this woman's name, address, phone number, last four digits of her bank card.... She is unaware but surely this breaches gdpr.

I was called today to be told the lady has her delivery and it is all sorted. But I am really annoyed that it caused me so much stress, time out of my day sorting, stress of getting a new card etc.

They have apologised but I want them to rectify the admin system. Dh says they should compensate us, but that feels a bit grabby. So what can they do to make things better? Nothing I guess... But yet I am still annoyed and they are getting someone else to call me, but really I am being unreasonable and need to let this go don't I?

OP posts:
itswinetime · 25/10/2019 14:19

Lots of shops offer you a guest checkout option you Put your details in including email for confirmation but the company don't store them or creat an account for you!

The customer should have been more careful entering her email address.

You could have spoken to your bank before cancelling everything.

I'm not sure I see why the shop/company has doe wrong. I'm not sure what exactly you think could have been done differently.

Pardonwhat · 25/10/2019 14:19

Compensation? Really?
Tell him to stop being ridiculous.

Mistakes happen.
Here you are spending MORE ‘lost time’ on it.

Honestly just move on!

Nixen · 25/10/2019 14:21

Compensation?! Jesus wept

You massively overreacted, it wasn’t even your current card number so how would it be fraud? You didn’t think to check that in the hour you were on hold?

YABU

Expressedways · 25/10/2019 14:27

OP, also probably worth mentioning that if you were to get a scam email, it would include a fake contact number because fraudsters know that people tend to panic and will try to contact the company. The emails can look pretty realistic so it’s easier than you think to be duped. Hence why if you receive anything suspicious, the first call should always be to your bank via the number on the back of your debit card.

donquixotedelamancha · 25/10/2019 14:29

Dh says they should compensate us, but that feels a bit grabby.

I think you should certainly be compensated for all the out of pocket costs associated with receiving an email.

AthollPlace · 25/10/2019 14:33

Her privacy has been breached. Yours has not. You just received a spam email. Yes I agree there should be checks in place to prevent this. But it’s her problem not yours.

BlueCornsihPixie · 25/10/2019 14:40

You've been a bit ridiculous

The customer has clearly just put the wrong email in, she hasnt registered for an account. The company haven't been careless with her details, she was careless with her address, it's exactly the same as if she'd told them she lived at number 2 when she lives at number 4. All her post goes to number 2.

What are you complaining about? A customer putting the wrong email in? It wasn't even your current card number so it's not like they could do anything! Realistically it's caused you about an hour of stress. And even then a quick call to your bank would have sorted it if you couldn't get in touch with the store

RosesAndLilies · 25/10/2019 18:54

YABVU

The company have done nothing wrong, the customer supplied the incorrect email address so they are not at fault for sending an email to it. I shop online all the time, and have never had to "activate" in order to place an online order. Most people would find that an unnecessary step to online ordering which may put them off.

Certainly to be on hold for over an hour was a long time, but you chose to stay on hold to them so don't see why they should compensate you. You could have emailed them or better yet contacted your bank.

GoingFullBillFoster · 25/10/2019 19:17

If she checked out as a guest then she would not have had to create an account.

The information of hers you do have is nothing sensitive. Name and address are easy to get hold of for anyone, and the last 4 digits of her card number are useless.

I get that it's been a ballache for you though. The fact you've had to spend any time sorting this at all is irritating. However, it's just one of those things. Bit shit, but draw a line.

SlightlyStaleCocoPops · 25/10/2019 19:18

Compensate you for what?

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