I’ve had enough I’m mum to 4 children , two grown up at home (don’t care really expensive area city) the others 11 and 6. However you might think that’s good two older ones to watch younger if I go out. I have no life all friends are partnered up etc I have just waited 30 fucking minutes to have a pee because of some one having a fucking shower now he is hovering around kitchen because he thinks I’m talking to a MAN . He had all day to do what he is now doing but no mum is back she is not allowed a life she is not allowed friends , and when she has friends round I will consistly come into kitchen and make tea and toast for myself. I’m not allowed a life it’s worse than being with a controlling abusive partner ( I know because I left one bit harder when it’s a child)I can’t wait for him to move out ! I don’t know what I’m asking I’m just fed up with everything the ex came back as I thought I can’t see him like he was (no he couldn’t be helped) shit on my children from great height. I just want my nice quiet peaceful life back ... he is now rumbling through cupboards moaning !!! Go buy your own stuff then your fucking 21 as someone dared eat some cheese let’s . NOw he knows I’m on my phone so he is making as much noise as possible if you could making coffee and getting a packet of crisps !!! Oh he has decided to eveasedrop in front room as he thinks if I’m texting, someone will phone that’s the other move then if someone phobes asks who’s that . Don’t people understand personal space