I work full time and DH is SAHP. I’ve taken the day off because DH has a hospital appointment so I’ll do after school run instead and plus it would be nice to be home for the day.
Have been asking for him to get steamer out for me for about 3 weeks (I can’t get to it as in loft and can’t lift myself up)
Get up this morning and he is rummaging through DD8 school coat, pulls out Halloween dance money. Huffs and goes to bathroom where DD is. I say don’t bother her about it now. He stops and stares at me then puts money on side and walks off.
Since then he’s been silent. I ask what the matter was and all I get is ‘nothin’
I go upstairs an notice he’d got steamer down. Asked him why didn’t he tell me and he’s says shouldn’t have to, that he’d assume I’d see it.
I asked again before he left and he said there’s nothing wrong with him it’s me who has the problem cos I kept asking what was wrong.
He then said well you must know what you’ve done if you know there’s something up.
I said is it because I said don’t bother DD about money? He said no it’s cos she lost her new boots.
I say you didn’t tell me about it. He said no, because you kicked off about the money before I could say something.
Now I’m confused because I don’t know if it’s all my fault or not. Have I been unreasonable?