Earlier this year my OH told that he doesn't want to have a second child. We have a DD who is 2, will be 3 in Jan and I wanted to start trying for baby number 2 around this time to be fair. Anyways after many talks he told me he couldn't think of anything worse then going back to the baby stage, how impractical it would be having a newborn in our room and basically that he wanted his life back.
It's been tough but relationships are fully of compromise and as much as I really want a second baby I've been working on these feelings and over the summer I got rid of all things baby ðŸ˜.
His sister is currently weeks away from giving birth to baby number 2, which again something I find hard to deal with. Anyways tonight he said had I not got rid of things who knew. I said what do you mean and he said well it would be nice in the long run to have two and was acting like I'd made this decision to not have anymore. I'm fuming as well as hurt, especially after dealing with all the emotions over the past few months. I then said well then let's start trying and he back tracked immediately saying we've gotten rid of everything now so that's just an added expense we don't need. Now his acting like I'm wrong to be upset with him. What is wrong with some men????