We have a family get together once a year with PIL, 2 BIL and their families and us. We see each other in smaller groups throughout the year but this is the only time we all get together.
We live around 250 miles apart. BIL and PIL live relatively close to each other, other BIL lives around an hour away from them and we live around 3.5 hrs away.
We have tended to travel down to them for this meeting but it's hard as our kids are school age so it usually means leaving later on the Friday and then travelling home on the Sunday. This year MIL has booked something more central for us all- it's actually closer to us but not by much. My SIL has been making comments about this and it's kind of hurt me and pissed me off.
The background to this is that everything tends to revolve around her and her children's routine regardless of how disruptive this is to anyone else.
MIL is always so keen for things to be fair and tries so hard to accommodate everyone and my other BIL and SIL are just lovely and easy going (as we've always been about arrangements too)
So AIBU to be pissed off and hurt that SIL has felt the need to make snidey comments about us all meeting in the middle? Should I say anything? Do I just forget about it as this place is booked?
I guess I feel I've bent over backwards to accommodate her in the past so this kind of stings. Also (sorry I'm waffling now!) I make a huge effort with her kids and she barely acknowledges mine.