Lots of issues here.
Firstly, EVs are great. I would not promote hybrids because EVs are way better. Unless you go for a more expensive plug-in hybrid, there is no point to them.
We had a 24kw leaf, which is one of the older models. It would do 80-90 on a charge or about 60 per charge on the motorway. I would not have that car if you wanted a lot of commuting. However, 80-90 miles more than covers our usual use and we charge at home. If we wanted to go on a long trip to visit family, which is rare, then we would hire a car as the cost saving between petrol/diesel and home charging saved a lot of money and more than covered hire cost.
My SIL does a lot of motorway miles, so no I would not recommend one of the older cars to her. The newer cars do many more miles and 200-300+ miles in the newer EVs is not uncommon. Most people would not generally do that number of miles in a trip and if you are then you stop and charge. Most people have to stop and fill up when driving.
Battery technology moves on. For example, Tesla have said their new batteries they are developing can achieve up to 1 million miles. For old Tesla cars, Tesla recycle the batteries into powerwalls for home solar panels, so they get reused. There are also new batteries being developed - one that would be more of a fuel cell that you swap out and which is fully recyclable and others involving glass.
The mileage will increase over time as will charging times. Yes you are looking at a good 30 minutes to rapid charge an electric car (depending on your battery and the power of the charger) and they are working on decreasing that. Home charging is great if you have the space for it and they are developing charging points on kerbside and also charging from street lamps for those who have to park on-street.
There are lots of new EVs to hit the market, which will be out next year as car manufacturers have to release EVs to balance their emissions. They will make a big difference (VW ID3 will be one of the big players). On top of that the charging network is still expanding - petrol stations are planning to put charging points in and some of the big European charging network companies are planning to open charging stations here. Over the next 5 years there will be fantastic improvements in the market.