Just posting here for traffic really.
Please be kind, I’m feeling really down lately and I’m not sure if it’s just me being stupid or what. I’m married but my husband doesn’t really speak much to me. He works shifts so between us both working and running about after the kids we don’t really get much time. He seems to completely lack empathy, if I’m upset or bothered by anything He will ask what’s wrong but he comes across as very annoyed/confrontational when asking. He talks about how when he’s at work and someone comes to him with a problem and he’s so supportive, I wish he could be like that with me. A few years ago I caught him messaging a couple of other girls on Facebook, he claimed it was innocent but I’m not sure. I found out a couple of months ago that last summer he took out a loan of £16k behind my back. He has nothing to show for it. Im struggling with these things. I feel like I can’t leave, I only work part time and couldn’t afford to live on my own plus our kids would be heartbroken and devastated and I just can’t put them thru it. Is this just my life now?