To use this toilet?

[hardyloveit]

Please help with suggestions! I'm currently at work (hca in community) I'm absolutely busting for a wee!
I've asked the service user (persons who's house it is) if it's okay to use the toilet (as I always ask)
He has said no!
I have a few options -
He is in the lounge with the chair facing tv so can't see me, do I

1. Quickly use it and hope he doesn't realise.
2. Wet myself
3. Cut the call short (not get paid and told off by my boss)

I've asked him again and said I'm literally bursting but he has still said no.
Phoned my boss already and explained and she said if he says no then not to use it and if she finds out I have then I'll be called in for a meeting.

Please help!!!

I'm going to phone my boss and say how unreasonable it was and what would have she done I. That situation! I've been doing this job a long time and never been refused the toilet before. There's ones I'd never use but not refused

Definitely find a container of some sort, and a private spot in the house. Do your business.

Pour it down the laundry sink, or an outside drain, and rinse well.

You didn’t technically go against the client’s wishes.

Also it’s liberating to break with tradition and try ‘survival mode’ every once in a while. Keeps you flexible and gives you a good story to giggle about with your mates at the pub later this week. You’ll be right.

Bring this up with your supervisor. They cannot expect you to go to work and not go to the toilet. What a difficult, miserable man.

@flouncyfanny yes I've weed haha

I would say you had no choice but to use it TBH .What does he expect you to do FFS Wee all over the carpet? Does he have MH issues do you think .I think you would be within your rights to refuse to go in there again .