Can you help me figure out who is BU?
We have 2 dds 4 and 6. We decided to go to the playground today that had a food market nearby. Realised on the way I had forgotten to bring their coats. It was sunny but cold when we arrived. 9 degrees. I looked around the car and DH had 2 sleeveless jackets in it. I put them on the kids. They were down past their knees. They looked ridiculous but I thought who cares. DH went mad "they can't wear them. They look ridiculous. We'll have to go to the shopping centre and buy them coats". I said that's crazy. They have coats at home and proceeded to walk towards playground. When we got to it he said they can't go in there like that. Everyone will look at them and laugh at them. They'll have to take them off and just go without. I said it's too cold. He then said it was dangerous to be climbing etc with these jackets past their knees. He had a point that it was dangerous but that's not what bothered him. I said I think they'll be ok. I'm not leaving them freezing. He stropped off saying he was going to the food market to see if they sold coats. I rolled my eyes and said ok if u want. He texted me half an hour later saying they didn't have any and would meet me in car. He would have passed by playground on way back to car. So we spent another 20 min in playground and I purposely decided to go to market with the kids to leave him in his strop for longer. The 3 of us had food there then went back to car where he was sitting with a face on him. We've barely spoken for the rest of the day.
I know it's not major but who is BU?
Was I crazy to put the massive jackets on them?
Or was he U to care so much about what others thought of how silly they looked?
I feel like he ruined what could have been a nice family day out. But maybe it was me who ruined it...