Bad kisser - help!

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Dating new man, did some serious kissing for the first time today, and he's bad it at! Too much tongue! I usually love kissing, but I didn't really enjoy it and I don't know what to do. I like him and would like to see where this can go, but it's not really something you can just say to someone, is it? Any tips?

I’d just tell him (In a subtle way) or dump him.

Maybe he will be good at oral sex?

Bad kissing is a no from me. How old is he?

If he's a crap kisser then in all likelihood he's going to be a crap shag.

Dump and move on I say.

Not going to work. Wave him goodbye diplomatically.

I dated a rubbish kisser and it never improved. It got so bad we just stopped kissing - even during sex. If you like him go on a couple more dates and see if it improves but I doubt it. Dump him.

He's 47, been married, etc, so really should know. Dumping him seems harsh, but bad kissing in the long term not ideal either...

To get to that age and still think it's ok to shove your tongue in someones mouth is pretty poor really.
I'd move on

I married a bad kisser, thought I could change him, but nope. Divorce was the only solution.

Dump. He'll be a shite shag.

My ex was a terrible kisser but fantastic in bed .

Deal breaker for me. Dump.

Yuck...reminds me of my exH. He was like a St Bernard in the kissing department.

Bad kissers dont improve with you maybe with someone else but not with you.. id end it. It does not get better honestly...

I dated a bad kisser. Hated it. I actually bit his tongue once thinking that'll teach him but nope. He liked it. Amazing cunnilingus though.

My ex used to shove her tongue down my throat and I found it a bit disconcerting tbh, but she was ok in bed. Obv her previous partner liked it.

Can you not approach it in like a jokey way?

Say something like ‘woah nearly swallowed your tongue then ha ha’

He just sent me a message saying how much he enjoyed the kissing last night. I just replied "Morning!" Like an absolute moron.