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Boxingappples · 18/10/2019 21:56

Please go easy on me but be honest. Left my ex not long ago as relationship has been bad for many years I couldn’t trust him , sleeping in separate rooms for years etc we have a toddler together . I met someone else that gave me the kick up the arse to end the relationship I still live with ex as getting things together and will be leaving soon . New partner is putting pressure on me to tell ex about him so we can have a normal relationship without hiding it and essentially new partner will be staying with me some nights and getting to know child eventually .... ex took the break up pretty well I think he just wasn’t happy either ... so I suppose I am asking how do I tell him I’ve met someone else , what If he reacts badly , can he demand I do not introduce child to new partner ?? Is it better to move and then tell him ... I feel like my life is abit of a mess and I suppose I just want to hear from someone who has been in a similar situation ..just to add I’ve not told ex about new partner yet just incase the “amicable” split turns nasty whilst I am still living in the same place

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Ponoka7 · 18/10/2019 22:09

My DD is in a similar situation, but further on.

If you tell him now it will get nasty. So don't.

I don't think that he needs to know until your new BF is going to be introduced to the children.

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