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...to wonder what the fuck primary school teachers do?

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HermioneWeasIey · 17/10/2019 21:27

Because I reckon it must be some form of magic.

My DD really was not into writing or learning letters etc. before she started school. I would read to her a lot, but she'd get annoyed if I took it further. She absolutely hates getting things wrong or admitting she doesn't know something (must get that from her dad Grin), so all I could do was try and sneak some stuff in during our normal day and hope it had some effect.

She liked maths and would randomly come out with sums but again, would hate when I'd try doing maths games with blocks or whatever.

I'm a young single mum and her dad is in prison, so it was especially important to me to do what I could to encourage her down a different path than mine or (especially) his.

We're a month in and she's just read her reading book (after a few goes with me) independently, she can write her name and she wrote 'cat' and 'mum' today, she's in her bed next to me now and she can't sleep as she's too excited that she now knows subtraction and wants to tell me every sum in the world Grin

All this in a month! With 29 other kids to teach and her teacher and TA have managed to instil this sudden massive love for learning into her. I've been trying to do it for years, and I never managed it even though it's just me and her! I can't get over it.

I love to learn too; currently doing a full time masters whilst juggling a full time job and raising her alone - but I absolutely love learning and always have, and it was the one thing I hope she'd inherit from me.

She absolutely worships the ground they walk on too, and is so much happier than she ever was at nursery.

I read a lot of negative posts on here re teachers, and a lot from fed up teachers who clearly aren't appreciated as much as they should be - and I just wanted to say (and I'll be saying it to DDs teacher at parents evening next week) that I think you are absolute magicians and unsung heroes. Thank you for all that you do Thanks

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wasgoingmadinthecountry · 17/10/2019 22:46

You have a very lucky little girl.

And thank you for your words of support - much appreciated!

Inebriati · 17/10/2019 22:47

This thread has brought back such happy memories, such as the time the DC's bumped into one of their teachers in the supermarket and realised they were actual people.
And the time DS was bitterly disappointed to discover teaching was a job they got paid for, not something they do because they love the kids so much Grin

HopefulFor2020 · 17/10/2019 22:48

I clicked on this expecting to walk into a fight about how awful teachers are but what an amazing surprise!

You sound like a wonderful mum and your dd sounds like she'll do really well. Hopefully it's a school wife wonderful teacher thing.

Please do tell them! They get so much crap and I don't think they hear the good stuff often enough

YerAWizardHarry · 17/10/2019 22:48

I'm a student teacher so still very much have the teaching bug Grin

My son has a renewed love of learning this year in P3 after not clicking with his P2 teacher. His new teacher is fantastic and it makes such a difference

elliejjtiny · 17/10/2019 22:48

That's so lovely. I'm amazed that they manage to take reception children out on a school trip and not lose any Grin

HermioneWeasIey · 17/10/2019 22:48

l have huge respect for all teachers. l don't think they always get the credit they deserve for doing what's sometimes a difficult job in difficult circumstances. l also don't think everyone appreciates the amount of time they spend out of school hours doing school related work.

Agree! And that they often have to spend their own money on basic school supplies. They're doing one of the most important jobs anyone could do, on both an individual (to the child) and societal level, and they're treated so badly. It's criminal.

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nothoughts · 17/10/2019 22:49

They definitely have magic powers. My son went into reception with no interest in writing or drawing and within weeks could wrote recognisable words and would sit and draw a picture. I am in awe.

HermioneWeasIey · 17/10/2019 22:49

And honestly, thank you all for your kind words. Means the world, really. ThanksThanks

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Smileyaxolotl1 · 17/10/2019 22:49

Totally agree. The progress my daughter has made this half term (also reception) is amazing.

MadeinBelfast · 17/10/2019 22:51

I'm a secondary teacher but still think reception teachers are magic! I've no idea how they deal with 30 4 or 5 year olds! You sound like you're doing a great job too OP Smile

BackforGood · 17/10/2019 22:59

I've just finished work for the night and thought I'd op on MN for a bit and this was the thread I've opened.
How lovely.
Thank you for your kind words OP Flowers and others.

If t is any consolation, my own dc don't believe that I could possibly know anything about anything I try to help them with either - it's just part of being their Mum

HairyFloppins · 17/10/2019 23:00

I agree with you. The reception teacher my dd had worked wonders with her and contributed massively to her love of reading. She does English at A level now.

Also her high school Maths teacher for having faith in her and getting her that level 4.

Teachers get a lot of stick on here sometimes, but they have taught both my children things I never could of over the years.

VenusTiger · 17/10/2019 23:12

They are super aren’t they! I certainly couldn’t, or rather, wouldn’t want to do it.
I think the herding effect helps when they see other kids doing it, they don’t want to feel left out.
Anyway, give yourself some of the credit OP, you sound like a very supportive mom.
Lovely post!

bookworm14 · 17/10/2019 23:12

Lovely post, OP. My DD also started school this September and is already reading short words. It’s miraculous!

I told DD today that next week was half term, and she said ‘but I love Miss X [her teacher] so much - I don’t want to leave her’! Smile

Cuppachino · 17/10/2019 23:15

They do have actual magical powers. My DD was a real live-wire when she was younger. She fidgeted all the time, couldn't sit still for any length of time. I really worried about her starting school.

Parents were invited to a school show shortly after DD started school. DDs class were sitting at the front of the hall and I couldn't see her there...Oh god, they've removed her, I bet it's because she can't keep still I thought. Then I spotted her, sitting serenely, perfectly still and happy. I hadn't recognised this child. How did the teacher manage this? Amazing.

Yestermo · 17/10/2019 23:22

Teachers are amazing. But so are parents like you. All your hard work is paying off. Well done.

Bowerbird5 · 17/10/2019 23:23

What a lovely post.

Don’t forget making cakes is Maths too. Eat a pizza cut it in halves, quarters and they will learn it without trying.

Jossina · 17/10/2019 23:58

Keep this in mind for the future. Children don't like to listen to their parents but will listen to other adults.

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