So I found out almost a year to the day that my husband was having an affair - he worked away Monday to Friday and had a relationship with a girl in the office where he as working .
We had 2 kids and I was pregnant with our third when the affair began
I found out about the affair through messages on his phone almost exactly 1 year ago today - he was kicked out our marriage was over no hope for a reconciliation - however after lots of grovelling and promises I agreed to give things another chance but I have since found out that although he has never seen the OW again they have remained in contact via text and social media.
Once again he is out of the house our marriage is in my opinion totally over but he says that he has not seen her in over a year and has only momimum contact in social media with OW but to me if he wanted to save our marriage he should never have looked at, spoken to or thought about this woman
AIBU???