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Moaning neighbour!

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NancyBirch · 16/10/2019 12:22

So we're currently decorating our bedroom and as we both work full time we only get time at night or weekends. We have neighbours above us who are away on holiday for a week but have a house guest dogsitting. Our neighbours have never complained about noise ever - they've lived there 2 years, we're 23 years in our house.

Last night my DH was putting up the last of the coving so tapping nails in to hold the coving and scraping excess adhesive etc. This all went on between 6pm - 8pm.
A knock at my door at 7.40pm from the upstairs house guest who said 'Are you doing something in that room' pointing at my bedroom window. I said 'Yes we're decorating'. She then complained that it was like banging on the ceiling and she was in her bed as had to get up at 7am (she's sleeping in the room above the room we're decorating). She wanted to know how long it would go on for, I said a few weeks but that DH was almost finished for the night.

I was quite dry with her as I think she's being completely unreasonable. I'm also annoyed that I didn't realise what time it was when I answered the door as i'd have been more vocal about it. I mean who goes to bed at 7.30pm and expects complete silence at that time?!

She's being massively unreasonable right?

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ThatMuppetShow · 16/10/2019 13:38

but I've had some really noisy neighbours over the years and I've always put up with it
but that's your decision, YABU to be annoyed because others don't agree to put up with it.

And YABU to say that it wasn't that bad, it can't have been that quiet if the neighbour had to come downstairs to ask how long it would go on for

Also YABU to believe a temporary resident has less right to peace and quiet. I have made complain when staying in one holiday flat I had rented for the weekend, I was as entitled as anyone else to reasonable sleeping conditions.

Beautiful3 · 16/10/2019 13:43

It was reasonable of her to ask. Yabu for feeling angry about it. Just forget it and move on.

Fundays12 · 16/10/2019 13:44

I think she was being unreasonable that early. If it was 11pm I would have understood.

TheMustressMhor · 16/10/2019 13:56

felt quite pissed off that someone who doesn't even live there had to come down and complain about the noise when it wasn't even that bad

That's only your opinion though.

To her, the noise obviously was bad. You weren't the one experiencing the noise, were you?

Boysey45 · 16/10/2019 13:59

Shes BU, its not late and she doesn't even live there.

I could understand if it was after 10.30 or later. I don't know anyone even very elderly people who got to bed at 7.30.

starfishmummy · 16/10/2019 14:09

Our neighbours will START at 10pm or later!! Theyre good neighbours and obviously this isnt constant so we just ignore

ThatMuppetShow · 16/10/2019 16:14

I don't know anyone even very elderly people who got to bed at 7.30
Hmm

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 16/10/2019 16:42

I thought you meant something else when I saw your thread title. My filthy mind sorry opBlushGrin

YANBU. Things have got to be done at some point. With noise and disturbances you can please some of the people some of the time, but. You can’t please all the people all of the time. I mean don’t get me wrong, if it was 11pm or 5am. She’d have a point

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 16/10/2019 16:44

Oh sometimes I’m in bed by 7.30. However I don’t expect neighbors to think “Oh we can’t make any noises Spider might be in bed. The world doesn’t stop just because I do

Soubriquet · 16/10/2019 16:45

I go to bed at 7.30...as I have to be up for 2.30am for a 4am start at work

So yes I would be very annoyed if banging and crashing was keeping me awake

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