I am in the midst of a separation.my confidence is at an all time low.I am shitless at the responsibility of raising three kids in my own .I am trying to be positive and look forward in life . I have read half of the secret . I feel positive from reading it .the idea is to ask, believe you have i/ are it and you will receive it . I feel a little more positive already and am mentally envisaging whati I’ve asked for .I don’t want material goods . Not wealth or anything like that . Am I barmy? Has anyone any good experiences that they can share.thanks