To think she has betrayed my trust?

[Trustgone5]

Had a rhinoplasty last year. Self funded but confided in my parents (am early 20s). DM went nuclear and told her sisters as was so worried/confided in them. I had told family I was close to but specifically asked her not to tell anyone else. Have since found out she spoke to her sisters for advice. DF knew also but she wouldn’t/didn’t want to discuss with him (he was calm). Aibu to be fuming that she essentially betrayed my trust over a very private matter?

Bump

Surely the results of the surgery would be very visually obvious to anyone in your family so what would it matter if they knew? Surely it's not something you could easily hide? Or want to hide since you've gone down the route of surgery in the first place?

Not that visually obvious actually. It was more the fact she said she would keep it private and then didn’t.

Of you funded it yourself I don’t see what the issue is. And if it’s made you feel better about your appearance and given you more confidence then it’s money well spent and she should be happy for you. You’re over the age of 18 and can do what you like.

Same applies to her as well unfortunately, she shouldn’t have gone and told your aunts, but as pp pointed out the results of the surgery will be noticeable so it will come out at some point in the future anyway.