Previous poster... name changed.
(Ex) DH & I together 4 years, married 2.
I have 3 DS live in, He has 2 DS (1 NC & 1 holiday contact)
The issue, and my question is have I given up to easily?
We took, my DS 2&3 and SS on holiday abroad this summer and all were really excited.
To make a long story very short, DH was bit niggly with me from leaving home to travel. Never had any issues in our relationship (or so I thought).
We both had some alcohol but he was drinking a bit more than me.
Day 1 in resort (all inclusive), he's still being a snippy and my DS 2 has enough and tells him not to keep talking to me that way.
Things are left untill getting ready for dinner that evening.
DH flips, threatening DS 2 and being quiet physical. Verbally abusive to myself and kids.
I take kids to another room for evening. Unfortunately can't afford it for rest of week and all end up in same apartment.
Kids and I make most of holiday which he spends alone drinking.
I had DF collect my son's and I from airport and tell DH he is no longer welcome in my home and as his behaviour towards my son was so abhorrent out marriage is over.
It's been a few months and looking back although never aggressive he was moody and ignorant at times, which I put To work schedule and travel time.
Thing is although I know I could never have him around my DC have I given up on my marriage to quick?
Any clarification needed please ask.
Thanks in advance