Sanity check please ... 2nd date. He’s drunk

[Inliverpool1]

Now we were I thought going for food and drinks, I was planning to get a bit happy lets say. Called to check where we were meeting. He’s there with his nephew eating and sounded wankered.
He’s booked a hotel
I don’t want to go.

Don't. Go.
You are worth more than this.

Don’t go then. He doesn’t sound like a catch!

Definitely don’t go
You deserve much better
If this is him trying to make a good impression, just imagine how much worse he can get!
You’re well shot of him

What a prize! How lucky you are OP, to be invited for such a magical evening.

Please tell me you aren't the same poster who had the man turn up drunk on the first date?

Don't go.

Don't go and ghost him. Knobhead.

Don’t go....

FFS up your standards

Oh god, I wouldn't dream of going. And what's his nephew doing with him if he's meant to be on a date?

Oh god no, he was fine the first night. No fireworks but alright. I’ve gone to dispondant to fucked right off. I’ve paid a babysitter for this

Don’t go. Cancel.

Just say you’ll leave him to it and rearrange. You are not a sure thing which is what his behaviour reads like he’s thinking!

Jesus do NOT go be a shag for a piss head.

I’ve suggested he carry on drinking with his nephew and blocked him

Go visit a friend instead

Just checking I wasn’t being precious ☺️

Good, you deserve so much better!! Hope you can make a nice night by yourself instead.

Don't go, absolutely not.

Well done!

Haha phew!

You were being precious... because you are precious and worth way more than that!!! Good woman, keep the babysitter and call a girlfriend for a night in/out!

Thanks gals ☺️

Don’t waste your babysitter. Ask a friend if they want to go out for dinner or a movie or what takes your fancy really.

He is a total waste of space, assumes you will just be a sure thing and really sounds like an idiot and not a good catch.

Run.

Just no.
But while we are at of why were you planning on going to a hotel room with a bloke on a second date if there were no fireworks on the first date.

That sounds like a nightmare, you’re right not to go.