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Would I be unreasonable to kick off?

17 replies

ploddyttt · 11/10/2019 14:44

Two weeks ago I invited my close friend on a night out and she agreed and said she couldn't wait and nobody else was doing anything that weekend so was pleased I asked.
I invited friend 2 and she said she couldn't make it.
Two days before the close friend says she can't drink because she's on antibiotics and is going over friend 2 house for a cuppa.
Anyway it turns out they ended up going out to a club together and I only found out on Facebook on a pubs photos.
Aibu to kick off and say how sly they are?
I feel awful that friend 2 wouldn't come out but went out with friend 1 and friend 1 ditched me.

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Needbettername · 11/10/2019 14:45

You need better friends. Not sure what kicking off would do

Brefugee · 11/10/2019 14:48

unfriend and move on, they're not friends.

nanbread · 11/10/2019 14:49

That's rude. I'd probably say something tbh, then ditch them

Iloveacurry · 11/10/2019 14:49

They’re not friends. Block them and move on.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 11/10/2019 14:49

These cows are not your friends.

I wouldn't bother. Just comment on one of the photos, 'Wow, that cup of tea looks interesting' and block them both. Really bitchy, not just to do it, but also to post it when they knew you would see it.

Not sure why you've left it 2 weeks to be honest!

seaweedandmarchingbands · 11/10/2019 14:58

Be sure, but then ditch them. Even if you do quietly and don’t ‘kick off’. I’d just start being busy.

WhatFreshHell71 · 11/10/2019 15:02

Kicking off will achieve nothing.

Log this.

They are not your friends.

Gutting.

But you have to ditch them.

I wouldn't even bother explaining why. Just disappear from their lives.

KUGA · 11/10/2019 15:21

Brefrugee you are spot on.

Zebraaa · 11/10/2019 15:21

I’d block them. It’s spiteful.

Heismyopendoor · 11/10/2019 15:23

I wouldn’t kick off. Ditch them. Get some new friends. The end.

Mephisto · 11/10/2019 15:25

Kick them both to the curb, don’t kick off.

Why would go back for more of the same treatment?

AmIThough · 11/10/2019 15:25

Not worth kicking off over. At least you know where you stand.

DontCallMeShitley · 11/10/2019 15:33

Kick them to the kerb. Curbing them might help though.

LagunaBubbles · 11/10/2019 15:35

Well they would be ex friends now of mine.

msmith501 · 11/10/2019 15:57

Personally I would mention it but I have issues lettings things go when I have been wronged... I would at least ask her if she can understand how her actions made you feel.

HaileySherman · 11/10/2019 16:18

Making a fuss won't help anything and most likely will make them indignant and talk about you behind your back (not saying that's right, but the type of people to blow you off and/or ditch you after you've made plans are that type). If you're able, just move on like it never happened. If you can't handle being treated that way then you should find more considerate friends. If yoh plan on removing yourself from that particular duo of friends, then I'd say you got nothing to lose by giving them a piece of your mind. Just know that they'll use it against you with anyone who would listen.

MissLadyM · 11/10/2019 16:31

Just block them and move on. They clearly don't give a shit

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