To feel grubby after sexting DH?

[NottaDomesticGoddess]

For the first ever as I'm a bit of a prude but got carried away after a resurgence of relations. He replied enthusiastically and it all got of hand so we had to stop .

I feel really quite disgusting now. We're middle aged with adult children!

Is this something people 'do'?

Two consenting adults sent raunchy texts, which they both enjoyed. The horror! ;-)

Congratulations on spicing up your love life!
As long as you both keep it private there's no harm at all.

You can still be naughty in middle age!! Go for it!

Sigh ... wish it was me

Enjoy it!

Just as long as you don't mistakenly text the kids.

Enjoy 😉

It's fine. Enjoy!!

How sad that you are in the middle of you life and still have such discomfort around intimate relations and sex with your spouse.

The cultural “sex should never be spoken about” has a lot to answer for.

Why did you have to stop?

Why did it have to stop?
Yes, it’s something a lot of people do.
Not everyone likes it, so you don’t have to.
But to feel grubby / disgusting is a shame - you might find it worthwhile looking into why you feel like that.

Are you more middle class than your DH?

Is this something people 'do'?

We don't. It would be pointless. DH only looks at his phone about once a week.

@ConFusion360 that has the potential to be an amazing foreplay buildup 🤣

Don't feel grubby. Enjoy the fact that you're still enjoying sex, and each other!

Love it! Just don’t do what DH and I did. I’d given DS my iPad and DH and I were sending rude texts. After an hour or so, we hear ‘I can read everything you’re saying’ So, unless you have any synced devices then you’ll be fine 😂

Live a little

let's hope you are still doing this when you are both in your 80's and beyond. it's fun and that 'grubbiness' could be washed away in a joint shower or bath (smile)

Myself and my DH are in our late 50`s and believe me we are terrible with each other.
Our motto is old enough to know better too old to care.
Enjoy life.and smile.

Just don't text in the family chat by mistake

Why would you stop? Enjoy this bit of fun for as long as you can! He's your husband, ffs.

Yeah we do, don't see the problem. We are married adults and both our phones are PIN protected. It is just a bit of fun.

Meh. So it’s not your thing 🤷🏻‍♀️ That’s ok. There are other ways to spice things up.

it all got of hand so we had to stop

What on earth does that mean?

I understand OP. After we've "finished" and I've calmed down so to speak I read them back and think who the hell do I think I am 😂

I'm not a prude i just a get a bit after