Things have got miserable with dp of a year. We don’t live together. He has one small dc who he has four nights a week. He’s a very hands on dad. The main problem was that his ex was very persistent in texting dp almost constantly from first thing to very late at night. She also still walks all over him, hanging up on him when she doesn’t get her own way and dictating how he raises their dd. I understand the need to keep in contact because of the dd but this was constant. Until very recently he hasn’t done anything about this. He has recently spoken to her about it and she seemed to go quiet. The thing is that the way he has treated me has really affected me. I have felt so uncared for. He hid me from anyone for the first four months which even meant us not being able to go into his local town centre incase we bumped into her ex, who has a dp of her own (other man she left him for).
Anyway, he also never tells me he loves me (he’s said it once), never pays me a compliment and he’s never paid for anything for me. He also talks non stop about himself, his life and interrupts me if I talk.
All this and I’ve finally had enough. I have finished with him. It’s so hard though, all I want is him back, but so so tired of not feeling appreciated. So tired from it all.