Do you think school bullying has increased this decade, or is it just talked about more and addressed more? When my own children were little I had a lot of anxiety about them being bullied or not making friends. I didn't project this onto them of course. They sailed through without any problems. Now I'm being the same with my grandson and he's only 2! I never had any problems at school either & had a normal, run of the mill school life. I get very tearful & depressed about it sometimes. Maybe it's menopause & I should shut myself off from the news & social media. I don't tell my grandson's parents of my fears, I only tell husband. He just thinks I'm being irrational & should instead focus on enjoying our little grandson, who we are lucky enough to see regularly.
He's right of course, I can't spend the next few years agonising over a 2 year old's future school life!