I hope this is the correct place to post this!
I have a friend who I know is being emotionally abused by her husband. They have 2 children who are infant school age who are also effected by the abuse.
I don't know how to help!
I have offered solitude at my house if she needs to get out. And offered childcare/playdates for the children. She has taken the offer up a few times. I have told her I think his behaviour is way out of line when she has opened up to me about his behaviour.
I have never told her I think she is being abused though.
I don't know if she knows he is abusive.
He has Asperger's which obviously is an added stress on the relationship. But from what I have seen and heard this is more than Asperger's.
His behaviour towards his wife and children is abusive.
How can I help? Do I tell her I think she needs to leave or get help from professionals? For herself and her DH? And her kids?
We have known each other for 7 years been closer friends for the last 2. We are good at being honest with each other and are both supportive and kind friends.
I just don't know what to do!
Any advice?
Thanks.