Bit of a long story but basically I was with my ex partner for 6 years. We were trying for a baby and he broke up with me out of nowhere. The week he broke up with me I found out I was pregnant and he then confessed the reason he broke up with me was because he had met someone else and wanted to be with her. I was devastated and felt like my whole world was crashing down round me.
He ended things with the woman he left me for and promised me he would be there for me and we sort it all out. He didn't stick to his word. One minute he would be great then the next turn so nasty to me and say I tricked him and he never wanted this. I was just found out he is now seeing another girl and has told me she is his main priority, as the baby isn't here he doesn't care about me but still wants to come to the 20 week scan.
He has put me through hell and I told him if he started a new relationship while I was pregnant he wouldn't be near me again. I would never stop him seeing his baby but I cant physically be around him anymore after this and don't want him at the scan or the birth. Am I being unreasonable to let him around him until the baby is born as what he is doing is causing me so much stress. Most days I honestly don't know how I am going to make it to the next, he has hurt me so bad. All I want is to get this pregnancy and have my baby in my arms.