To still think about a kiss?

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Long time member of MN - Nc because I don't want this connected to previous posts lol!!

Shame shame shame!! 🔔

For starters, I'm very HAPPILY married.

Sex life could be better (three kids one with SN ) so the opportunities are scarce (but we do what we can when we can even if it's only once a month!)

But, and here's the AIBU bit....

AIBU... that Sometimes, when I'm alone 😳 I think back to a kiss I once had with someone I shouldn't have.

Before marriage and meeting my OH, I worked in an office with a male manager.
We flirted and the sexual tension was literally insane.
Office relationships were banned,
This made the flirting way better.

One day, it was just us, working on a project that needed completing by the morning. We were laughing and having flirty banter - when we finished the project we stood talking for a while. He said he wished he could kiss me.
I said "go on then"
He said he shouldn't / couldn't. After a few seconds of intense eye contact/ heavier breathing etc he threw a plastic water bottle he was holding across the room and literally grabbed me, up against the wall and kissed the life out of me.
I was literally weak at the knees everything
The rest is a bit porno so I won't say more!!

I still think about the passion behind it 15 years later!

We had a very brief fling but it fizzled out.

Does this make me a bad wife?

No! Nothing wrong in thinking about it Enjoy!

Why'd it fizzle out, OP?

YANBU

I read that twice and I’m still thinking about it.

YANBU

I read that twice and I’m still thinking about it.

Yeah - what she said.

YANBU that sounds like something out of a film!

grin Yeah - what she said.

And then I read it slowly and mentally reenacted it.

I don't think YABU, OP

YANBU. I have a similar snog in the memory! Only ever kissed once, nothing else ever happened but it was proper weak at knees stuff!

Thank goodness for that!!!

I won't tell you what happened on his desk.... and then in the stair well....

My first kiss - aged 14 - was on a hotel roof in Malta during a blackout. Billions of stars. So romantic. Shame I threw up afterwards because of the two warm beers I'd had.

Nah, totally reasonable to think back to happy times in the bank Sounds amazing!

Mine was a Spanish coach driver when I was working as a holiday rep. I was allocated his coach for each of the 4 airports runs I did that day, so spent about 8 hours flirting, and each time I climbed up the bus steps with him behind me the tension grew, until the last midnight transfer when we’d dropped off all the passengers and he took me home.

No discussion, he just hid his coach up the back alley (fnar fnar!) and then we had the most mind blowing sex ever.

Found out later he had a GF which was disappointing. But not before a 2nd go

OP My username and your username make a very bizarre first line of a bloody great novel.

I was reading it thinking ‘if she didn’t shag him then I don’t want to know’ 😂

Yanbu, my big lifetime passionate kiss was with my partner, how ridiculous, but if it wasn’t I’d still rethink about it 😂

13 years later, I still remember the fizzling intensity of kissing a boy in his parents’ kitchen while visiting him during the uni holidays after MONTHS of sexual tension. It never went anywhere for a variety of reasons, but blimey, that kiss he was beautiful.

I also remember the ‘fuck it, this is actually happening’ moment of kissing a woman I’d been sharing a holiday house with on the the final night of a big group trip after a week of ridiculous heated glances and ‘accidental’ touches from both of us the feeling of FINALLY getting your hands on someone after that kind of build up is unforgettable. (Like the OP, it got rather less PG after that...)

Ah, youth

Ah, the memory of knee trembling kissing...

That first kiss can be mindblowing - I still remember the first kiss with DH - in a smoky nightclub in Leicester. We'd been "friends" for ages - and then, OMG. I just wanted to eat him alive

Ooh, and then there’s the two gorgeous french men I kissed in a kitchen at a New Year’s Eve party many years ago...oo la la!

I agree about first kisses being mind-blowing. DP first kissed me when we were in bed together. It had been a "friends with benefits" situation or so we had planned. We'd been flirting for months and the tension was incredible. I still remember it 15 years later and it still sends me weak at the knees.