Aibu to be upset my OH did not shout bye or come and say bye before going out? I just feel it's disrespectful.
For context he panicked because he realised an item of clothing he purchased 2 weeks ago was the wrong colour and only had til today for a refund/exchange.
He was already planning to go out anyway but was leaving it to the last minute as he didn't think he'd need to go further to the specific shop.
I kept telling him to go the previous hour before and leave everything to me. I.e. lunch cooking and his washing on.
I called him and he said he hasn't got time to consider saying bye to me to let me know he'd actually decided at that point to go out.
He'd already got upset with me a few hours before as I hadn't washed some items of clothing so was already feeling unappreciated.
Just feel it's a lack of respect. Maybe I'm over reacting. It's not uncommon for me!