I am completely aware, that no one has to invite anyone to anything, but am I being unreasonable to fill extremely hurt that my best friend for 15 years has not invited me to their birthday gathering.
My best friend and me are like sisters- that’s what people say. She has just started uni three hours away from where I live. She wanted me up on the first day however I said no. There was drama about this however they soon understood that I couldn’t go as my parents had given me a very awkward ultimatum. I agreed to go up on the following week, however things didn’t turn out the greatest ( thanks mostly to her batshit mum).
Earlier yesterday she started typing a Snapchat however no message came through. I thought it was a bit odd as she only snaps me if she wants to invite me out to do something, but I brushed it off. I thought she was saying at uni for her birthday. At midnight I thought I would ring her to say happy birthday ( I know she would be up because she always Waits for midnight on her birthday and if her birthday falls on a Saturday or Sunday she will always go clubbing to celebrate- I know I’m always there) To see if she was up I thought I would check her Snapchat story and I find out that she and all our friends ( Mutual) are in our local club! Like I said I know no one has to invite anyone but according to This person “I am in the top five most important people in her life” (Others being mum, dad and her two little sisters).
Me and her mum are really not on good terms at the moment so my bet it is SHE who didn’t want me to attend. Friend will do anything her mother says even though she’s an adult.
Just don’t know how to handle the situation. I’m pissed off that she invited all her friends out for her birthday apart from me. Who everyone considers to be her best friend! 