So....
I’ll try and be short. I started seeing someone 4 months ago. At the time she said she had separated in Jan, it subsequently can out she had ‘finally’ separated a week before we met.
There were some things we rushed into, like introducing our kids, who all get along amazingly. And others, like meeting friends which she has strongly resisted.
Anyway, she has always made time for us, until the last few weeks. Now whenever there is a calendar conflict I get cancelled on, although she calls it rescheduling - but no dates end up being put in the calendar and there is always an excuse as to why no dates are forthcoming.
We have had some rows about it as well as some adult conversations. But nothing has changed.
She says I am being unreasonable - as we spend 2 or 3 nights in each other’s company. Which is me going to her place and waiting while she puts the kids to bed.
I just don’t understand why I’m the one who always get rescheduled. I’ve tried talking to her, but she gets defensive and aggressive and says things like she doesn’t know if the relationship will work rather than discussing the issue.
Any insights appreciated?