DP DF has been diagnosed with Diabetes, type 1. Massive change for him & as he lives abroad he’s staying with us until he sorts himself out. Which is no problem. He works offshore so he hasn’t been home as of yet. As he’s trying to regulate himself. He is fine in himself now.
DP informed me it was for a few days, which as I say was okay. Yesterday he randomly said it will be at least 1 week. I’m on mat leave at the mo with our LG and His Dad is expecting me to do everything as I'm off work. Drop plans, drive him to the docs, shopping, get a passport sorted (an hour drive away, so 2 in total there and back) I’ve just been helping him cook and he literally doesn’t listen to a word I say, every two mins the same question. I can feel my patience running very thin. Not to mention my LG was awake from 2.30am this morning so I’m already tired. I’ve just popped my head round the door to my DP (he’s putting our LG to bed) and briefly gave him the heads up. He’s just told me to tell him not to speak to me like that. Okay I’ve not been direct with his dad but I’m in an awkaward position it’s HIS father, I’d be mortified if my DF was going on like this. He’s just told me I’m a grown woman so sort it out, far to say I told him to he’s being a prick and I’ll talk to him later away from my sleeping LG
AIBU? If his dad over stepped the mark of course I’d say something but I feel awkward, as I can’t really pin point it’s just daft little things what’s adding up. I know he's going through a big change in his life so I feel bad for him too. I’d appreciate if my DP could just explain the situation, not to be funny with him, but to nip it in the bud. Explain that I’m not here to ship him round and to listen to what I'm saying. Neither are appreciating my efforts if I’m honest. His dad is a very arrogant man, who believes women should look after him so I know it’s not him not hearing me which is also very annoying. That belief alone always annoys me. I just know it’s going to be a LONG week