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AIBU?

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to ask if there are any Scottish lawyers with chronic insomnia

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DonKeyshot · 01/10/2019 01:35

around to take a look at this thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/3702850-moving-out-from-abusive-partner-and-legal-rights

As I'm not familiar with the laws of Scotland I hope someone who is can give an opinion before, say, 8.30am this morning.

OP posts:
DonKeyshot · 01/10/2019 03:56

bumplng just in case a legal eagle gets up in the night and indulges in a spot of mumsnetting.

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Horehound · 01/10/2019 04:12

I'm not a lawyer but I think you can take them its just making sure you are phydically able to/ have the means to mive them/ he wont assault you? Then in the divorce the values would be totted up and split 50 50.
Just like let's say you have a jount car and he took that you would be entitled to 50 percent of the value

Horehound · 01/10/2019 04:15

And if for any reason he calls the police and they come to you, just deny it! Like they won't give a fuck. Jut say "no officer all this furniture was already in this flat I don't know where it came from."
Police won't care and certainly wouldnt be investigating that kind of thing. So he actually just can't do anything. Take the furniture.

kristallen · 01/10/2019 05:58

The thread has moved on and he's taken the child. He's a full on psychologically abusive bastard and OP needs help!

Lena007 · 01/10/2019 06:04

Good morning, @DonKeyshot, you are saving my DS 💐

I've taken DS's sofabed (we had 3 sofas) and his fully furnished bedroom is still there, kitchen table (there is another one folded in the garage), one of the two TV units and a small fridge - there is an integrated fridge freezer in the kitchen. Apart from that I've taken clothes, shoes, our books some favourite toys and board games, our two bikes, PlayStation, DS's computer, a box of Christmas decorations. That's all. If he wants to say I've taken everything out of the house then go ahead.

He said I had to move out because he wasn't going to do it.

I feel like my own child has been taken away from me and I have nothing to say. Police was useless. I need to act quickly.

Stbxh is going to do the school run and speak to the head teacher this morning to make her aware of the situation and make sure I don't make things more difficult (whatever this means to him Hmm). Then he is off straight to the airport to pick MIL up so I have a little bit of time to get things moving.

I've seen my counsellor yesterday to talk through the situation. She said she is very worried and his only goal now is to destroy me completely, take DS away off me and get his parents to bring him up (of course daddy is too busy to do it).

Horehound · 01/10/2019 09:03

Well he can't take him off you, you'd get at least 50:50 with him bit if you are main parent to him then I think you'd get more.

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