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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think these are shite facilities?

73 replies

ChaosTrulyReigns · 30/09/2019 18:43

Before you all start I know it's not my battle to fight and DD is accepting of the facilities but, hey, I've just been deserted by a child and I'm allowed some leeway to be disgruntled.

Moved DD2 to university recently to her dream course, that's all wonderful.

She didn't get any of her 3 accommodation choices and has ended up in a very old (30+ years?) block which is actually materially better than we expected.

BUT there's 15 girls (university doesn't mix sexes ffs) across 2 floors sharing 2 showers 2 loos. Meh that's sort of bearable. 15 boys in same set up on the bottom two floors.

The kitchen is obviously a converted bedroom. So you can imagine the size of it .

There's 6 cupboards (2 of them wall so very shallow). And 3 drawers. So there's not even a cupboard shelf each.

There's one fridfe freezer.

One undercounter fridge and three undercounter freezers.

Not even half a fridge shelf each.

Plenty of freezer space though.

2 free-standing cookers which probably manageable.

No table. Obviously. As the room is a student bedroom.

There's a breakfast bar tucked in between
Bedrooms in the corridor with room for two people to sit at. But there's only one stool. Boys have two stools.

No common room or any communal space in the building. Nowhere to bond with flatmates really.

If she'd just have been allocated the same block but two flats across there would have been 8 to a large kitchen with a fecken table . This was the block open in applicants day and I counted 5 cupboards in that so still under resourced but definitely doable in comparison.

She's happy and doesn't want to swap as people are all lovely which is the Main Thing and I'm so relieved she's content - i don't want to interfere or achieve anything. And she's 18 she'll adapt as hundreds of students have in this Halls before her.

Just want my AIBU to be:

AIBU to think these facilities are fecken pants?

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Boyskeepswinging · 30/09/2019 18:45

Blimey, how many near-identical posts have you started?!

Streamside · 30/09/2019 18:47

They just learn to adapt, my daughter always gets sachets of rice for microwaving as there's such little cooker space

SnuggyBuggy · 30/09/2019 18:51

I think it sounds grim when you're a normal adult with your own kitchen and a house you take pride in but to an 18 year old away from home for the first time it's an adventure.

WorraLiberty · 30/09/2019 18:53

Never mind the kitchen

I can't get my head around 2 toilets and 2 showers for FIFTEEN girls Shock

ThatssomebadhatHarry · 30/09/2019 18:55

Most people house share after year 1. She is happy and happy with the people and most importantly her course. She is there to learn. I think you are missing her and worrying for nothing. I’m sure she will adapt to a shower routine. ......and breath.

ChaosTrulyReigns · 30/09/2019 18:56

The Internet told me this hadn't posted Grin

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Stompythedinosaur · 30/09/2019 18:59

It will be fine, they will manage and she will tell stories about it for years.

LadyJaneGrey56 · 30/09/2019 18:59

Yep it sounds horrible, but she'll cope and it'll be something she reminisces about in years to come. Then in the second year she'll get something slightly better and think it's a palace. Try not to worry!

carmelsundae · 30/09/2019 19:00

Yes, the facilities sound bad, when I moved into halls in 2000 our facilities were very similar. There were 10 on our floor, 9 girls and 1 guy and the kitchen sounds near identical. Plus 2 toilets and 2 showers... We used to queue in the morning to get a shower when we all had classes starting at the same time. However, this was my favourite year at uni... We were all in the exact same position and learnt to survive! We used to congregate in one bedroom at night, none of us had a TV so we became experts at card games or other random games. Plus made some of the best friends from my uni times. We knew it was grim, we knew other people would think it was from but for that year it was home and we loved it. Most of cried when we left and I was gutted when they pulled it down a number of years later as it had so many happy memories for us all!

Tanaqui · 30/09/2019 19:01

It's not the best- how much is she paying? Ds1 has 2 showers 2 loos between 6 (all boys), ds2 has 3 showers 3 loos between 14 (mixed). Both have about 1 fridge and 1 freezer shelf, plus two narrow cupboard, both around £100pw.

NumberblockNo1 · 30/09/2019 19:01

Just keep stuff in your room. We didnt even have a proper kitchen in my halls!

WinkysTeatowel · 30/09/2019 19:03

Are they catered halls?

PortiaCastis · 30/09/2019 19:03

Why 2 threads the same

Smileyaxolotl1 · 30/09/2019 19:04

It does sound old fashioned and as Carmel says very much like the block I stayed in in the late 90s. And that was the poorest accommodation on campus even then.
But she’ll cope and they’ll bond over the adversity...

LivingDeadGirlUK · 30/09/2019 19:06

I went to uni in 2000 and thats exactly what half the halls were like, some had sinks in the rooms, the fancy ones had those self contained en suits that they put in prisons.

However people pay a lot more now to go to uni and I think rightly expect a bit more for their money, I've been involved in the design of new student accommodation and its pretty much like a nice hotel.

Goatrider · 30/09/2019 19:08

It sounds pretty poor, dread to think how much they're charging.

ShinyMe · 30/09/2019 19:10

I reckon a big part of being a student for me was the shite facilities. It helped us bond, and it was fun and exciting and meant that when I got my own proper place after uni, it felt like a bloody palace and I loved it.

One of my uni years I had a half bedroom. It was a normal bedroom divided in two, but the partition came to 8 inches from the window, so you could hear everything from next door, and you could peer round the gap (and throw potatoes at the person having sex next door). I wouldn't want it as an adult obviously, but when I was 19 it was hilarious.

arethereanyleftatall · 30/09/2019 19:15

I guess my uni was probably the same, can't remember; but honestly, these things don't matter at uni. It's the time of life to have a blast without being bitter about cupboard space. Iirc we would all congregate on the stairs to get pissed of a Friday/Saturday night. No one cared a jot about there not being a table.

Choice4567 · 30/09/2019 19:17

Believe it or not my halls were worse than this. 40 people shared a kitchen. There’d been a fire the year before so we weren’t allowed ovens. 3 microwaves between 40 people...

TwoleftUggs · 30/09/2019 19:23

Blimey. Sounds like my halls from 1993! 8 to a corridor, all sharing 1 loo and 1 shower. With a tiny kitchen and half a kitchen cupboard each. I managed fine, but having seen the amazing accommodations they build now, it seems a whole different world. Your dc has stepped back into 1993 it seems.

marvellousnightforamooncup · 30/09/2019 19:24

You adapt it's fun at that age. I shared a two bedroom flat with 3 other girls and several yellow slugs, uni owned but off campus. Really weird sharing a room but at least our bathroom and kitchen was just for the 4 of us and the slugs.

DDiva · 30/09/2019 19:24

The kitchen situation doesn't sound too bad. I would imagine it's better to keep food in your room anyway incase it gets 'borrowed'. 2 loos and showers sounds awful tho !

ShirleyPhallus · 30/09/2019 19:27

This just sounds like university...?!

megletthesecond · 30/09/2019 19:28

15 girls and 2 loos sounds awful. Miserable to be honest. Any students with IBS would need better access. I can't see anything bonding in that.

PickAChew · 30/09/2019 19:28

No one would want to stash too much stuff in the cupboards, anyhow - they'll keep things in their rooms so they don't go missing. Even crockery or else it'll end up being snaffled by the lazy fecker who CBA to wash up.