To brief it.
Dhs ex is somewhat awkward in many ways.
Dsd is with us EOW. On the Saturday she does an activity which she loves. Then Sunday we do family things again which she loves.. Or sometimes just chill.
She does weekday activities too.
Her mum wants her to do an activity, it can be done eow.. She's trying to make us do it on our weekend. Which means. She would have to quit her current one she does with us, as well as ds. So we can take her to the one her mum wants her to do. As both times overlap.
The one her mum wants us to take her to is 15 miles away.. So not massively far but traffic there is a pain and would impact our day.
Dsd has said she wants to do both but on opposite weeks.. Ie eow basis. Her mum is going nuts and saying it's not fair..
She doesn't appreciate that it's dsd choice. Dsd likes the activity she does with us.
Ds would have to quit the activity too as its not feasible to get them both to different places.
The travel time with traffic will be a mare. She lives local to it and her parents, grandparents do all the running around for her as she don't drive.
We think she's being so awkward to make it look bad on dh in court saying it's not in dsd best interests.. But imo she is more than happy and seeing her family and extended family is also good for her.