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AIBU to feel selfish and angry he has gone?

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Fuckitletshavevino · 26/09/2019 10:38

I’m not sure where to start really. My childhood sweetheart who has been in and out of my life for 28 years is now in heaven. At the age of 37 depression won. I’ve not gone to work today instead I stayed up all night drinking vodka. It’s 6 days till his funeral and I don’t know how to deal with never seeing or speaking to him again so how do I deal with saying goodbye when I’m not ready? I just want to see his face smiling one last time. I’m so devastated and heartbroken

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Malibucyprus · 26/09/2019 10:44

I’m so sorry OP

YANBU or selfish to feel that way.

Do you have support IRL, someone to come and sit with/talk to?

Fuckitletshavevino · 26/09/2019 10:49

I’ve got so much support around me it’s overwhelming but it’s just not the same. It’s not him. I’m such a mess inside but I put a brave face on for everyone. I was given the chance to have time to myself last night and today so I guess I’m just letting it out

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Fuckitletshavevino · 26/09/2019 10:55

@Malibucyprus the worst thing it just doesn’t seem real

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