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New partner, AIBU?

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Mumm303 · 24/09/2019 20:14

New partner of around 3 months constantly goes on his phone. He doesnt hide it from me at all, just always flicking through twitter, on group chat to his male friends and messaging his female friends.

He has a lot of both female and male friends and I get the impression he's very sociable and popular, but we've spent the last weekend together and he spent a lot of time messaging others whereas I just wanted to enjoy the time we had together. We're long distance so don't get much time together. I bought it up a few times as a joke as I didn't want to seem full on but he didn't really reduce how much he was on it.

He's spoken to his friends about me and I've seen messages from them about them wanting to meet me etc, and he's been very open about his interest in me (much more so than I have been). But, in my head I can't see why he can't just enjoy his time with me without constantly having to check social media/ messaging others.

AIBU? Not sure whether I should just accept this as a generation thing as we're both still young? I definately don't have as many friends and tend to enjoy being in the moment more so I'm unsure whether it's just me that's different tbh?

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